June 2012
13 posts
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What C-Light Through Yonder Window Breaks?
When we’re talking about my career in adult entertainment, I tell time by what my hair looked like. Kayden can do the same with the list of companies she’s been contracted to. So let’s go back to when I had finally grown out my natural (brunette) color to nearly shoulder length and she was with Adam & Eve. We were both in New Jersey for the first Exxxotica convention in the...
pasif-agresif asked: If I didn't know, I couldn't say that you are a pornstar after reading your posts. I mean, too good to be a pornstar! Well done.
rockcello-deactivated20120620 asked: Did we talk about lost baggage at LAX baggage claim about 30 minutes ago? I couldn't tell if it was you but the aerial acrobatics comment...I mean how many of those people do you run across.
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graemebooks-deactivated20120923 asked: Дорогая Стойя, I posted a badly worded question to Neil Gaiman about your friendship recently and he suggested asking to you. What are your views on the feminist narratives that state porn is merely feeding the objectification and exploitation of women worldwide? Is this a problem for other outlets to deal with? This isn't a narrative I follow, but am genuinely curious as to your thoughts....
Regarding Daring To Be Eccentric's response to... →
saviors-of-jazz-ballet:
I was reading it because the concept of touch fascinates me, then because I was curious about the sexual bits, and then I got really really upset when it said sex was one of the main points of being alive. That’s the kind of language that prevents people from understanding asexuals, as it promotes the idea that there is something wrong or broken about us and it’s terribly...
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The Myth of the Real ____
People are insanely multifaceted. We behave differently depending on context. You probably use different language with your grandmother than you do with your peers. You probably dress differently for an important work related meeting than you would for a night out at a bar. Does that mean there’s a real you, being hidden or reserved?
Over the years, I’ve run into people (ok, mostly...
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Speaking of my home improvement ruckus...
Fleshlight seems to think that having exclusive pictures of me painting my apartment and behaving like a lunatic will help keep my Destroya sales up. The more Fleshlight royalties, the bigger my Swarovski-ing budget. I think the glue fumes may be affecting my cognitive function, but I digress. Steve Prue was kind enough to do some documenting, so keep an eye on their social media stuff, and, you...
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Storage Unit Adventures
I’ve never actually finished a twelve month lease. I’ve sublet from people to avoid paperwork, I’ve bribed landlords to let me out early without damaging my credit, and I once let an apartment sit empty for the last six weeks of the rental agreement because I had somewhere else I needed to be but six weeks wasn’t worth trying to avoid paying for. There have been long...
